All change is hard at first, messy in the middle, and gorgeous at the end.

Robin Sharma

Sometimes we need to ask ourselves better questions for better understanding and maybe, better results.

Small changes, when nurtured overtime, compound into results. Sometimes those results may be unexpectedly bad or positive. The generalized idea though, is that the more positive steps taken, the better the chance you have of building a better you.

Is it easy? No. Can it become more complex than you imagined? Yes. We are human. We are complex beings that try to simplify the things we love and enjoy. But change takes time. It takes deliberation. It is hard when you try to walk away from the habits that solidified the past. It can become messy and confusing as data changes every day. While it is not guaranteed that optimum health is the result, the point here is not to prevent you from dying; we will all, someday, die. And it is certainly not a reminder to be robotic.

Instead, I am here to help you nurture a path where you understand that you are human. And to enjoy the simplicity of changes that make you feel stronger, healthier, happier, bolder, more courageous, despite the discomfort of not knowing what the end will be. And according to the University of Harvard, where the Science of Wellbeing is taught, this is called Savoring. We are meant to savor the moments, build positive habits around them, whether those moments are good or bad. Because each moment teaches us a lesson, we can ask better questions and nurture better paths from there. It is all up to you.

The gorgeous part, when we first look into change, seems a bit farfetched. However, imagine yourself walking into a room wearing a flashlight strapped to your forehead.

Wherever you point your head, the light follows. Your life, your health goes the same way. The questions you ask yourself, they go the same way. And this is where change lies. Within the questions that unmask your habits. The hard questions. The intolerable questions. The questions that probably force you to face yourself.

When you ask yourself, “Why does this always happen to me?” your mind immediately tries to find the evidence. When you ask, “what can I learn from this?" your mind searches for a completely different direction. This is your guiding flashlight. The circumstances may still be the same, however your attention to the matter is different. Because our brain is meant to solve the problem. Deeper question, changed question, changed story. “All change is hard at first, messy in the middle and gorgeous at the end.”

In essence, your health requires active perception with deliberate questioning, but questions that build growth rather than criticism. Courage rather than guilt. Resilience rather than harder coping days.

Your Inspiration

Your Motivation

Your Story

Weekly Brain Snack

Your brain searches for evidence.

Questions to ask yourself week?

  1. What is one thing I did well today?

  2. How does today change my life tomorrow?

  3. When can I start building from this?

  4. What helped me succeed on days I feel like quitting?

  5. How can the hard days build better years?

Weekly Poetry

the value of change lies within the effort of your days, the tolerance of your moments, and the education of your hardship.

if a butterfly could wait its turn, and a caterpillar remains driven,

then there you are, a butterfly from the patience of the caterpillar who did not lose hope.

because life has no guarantee, but you, my dear can give yourself one thing,

build a greater story.

Original Poem by: J. V. Chicot, MD

Building Your Story

What do you think?

Health & Habit Insight

Reflection is More Powerful Than Perfection

If every single day you were to stand before the mirror and say the harshest things to yourself, would you feel driven?

Healthy habits are not built on endless self-criticism. They are strengthened by honest reflection, for example, “My sugar is high right now because I ate too many sweets yesterday” or “I am very stressed right now because I chose to ruminate rather than journal and decompress.”

What are some supportive questions for better health habits?

  • What supported my health today?

  • What challenged me today?

  • How can I make the changes today?

  • What do I need to adjust tomorrow?

  • What am I proud of?

Clinical Adherence Corner

The Clinical Adherence System Pulse: AWARENESS COMES BEFORE ACTION

The Clinical Adherence System was built on The Odyssey Adherence Framework. And the first phase is Awareness.

What you do not know, you cannot change.

Sustainable behavior change starts with understanding — not judgment. But it is more than your regular journal. It is a system. Built to evaluate your awareness, your reflection and your values. All in one place.

Expected wins during your 6-Month Journey:

  1. Better Blood Sugar Control

  2. Better Blood Pressure Control

  3. Early management of complications

  4. Early change in medication (as needed)

  5. Better organization of your health (all in one place)

Contrary to other planners, this is a system, built with the patient and the provider in mind. Designed for people living with chronic illness, caregivers, and health-conscious individuals, it transforms health management from an overwhelming task into a structured daily practice.

Track it. Manage it. Sustain it.

Weekly Challenge

ASK ONE BETTER QUESTION

For the next Seven Days, Seven Nights, write down one question that helps you grow. We are changing the narrative. We are savoring. A healthier you can be a happier you. A happier you, can be a healthier you.

Don’t rush it. Be deliberate. Pause. Think. Digest. We are moving your story. And this is why this newsletter is called: Brain Snacks™ Minute: Writing A Story Weekly.

Closing Thought

Every story is shaped by the conversations we have with ourselves. Those conversations often begin with questions we ask ourselves. So, create better questions, build better attention, nurture wiser behaviors, thence, your best health chance could follow your habits.

forget the script. write the story.

If you felt inspired by this Issue today, share it with a friend, a colleague, a healthcare worker, a caregiver, a boss, or a leader.

Thank you for spending a minute today to reshape how you think about your health.

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